When
Can I Start My Child In Piano Lessons?
By
Courtney Hall
There's
no simple answer to “how old does my child need to be for private
piano lessons?”. Every child is so different in their development,
maturity, attention span, and interests between 3-7, and every family
has a different parenting style and routine at home that all effects
the child's success in lessons. The first requirement that is a
necessity is knowing left from right really well. They also need to
be able to identify written numbers and letters really well, and if
they are starting to read independently, that is a huge help. Lastly,
they need to be able to sit relatively still, focus, and be able to
follow directions for about 30 minutes.
Although
learning to play an instrument is fun, it is also takes a lot of
really hard work. Very young children are all about having fun and
aren't so good at doing hard work yet. I have agreed to do lessons
for as young as 3 before, and although they have some capability of
learning piano, it almost always results in the same thing-- getting
"burnt out" and fighting their parents horribly at home
when they're told to practice. They have fun at their lesson and
still want to take lessons, but they absolutely refuse to practice at
home. Therefore, the progress is so unbearably slow without practice
between lessons that everyone starts getting discouraged. Now there's
always some resistance to practicing no matter what the age, but I
feel like there's usually a big difference after about kindergarten
or 1st grade when they've been through a little school and start
understanding homework because basically that's how lessons work-- a
half hour private lesson then at least 5 days of piano homework to
work on independently. The older they start, the faster they progress
and get to harder songs which helps them have more confidence and
enjoy piano more, so they're a little less likely to get burnt out.
How
creative the parents can be with practicing at home can be a huge
help though. If the parents make piano practice a short consistent
part of a daily routine and are really creative about making it feel
like fun and games, piano practice is likely to go a lot better.
For
children younger than 1st grade students, make sure they
have had at least 3-6 months of just playing around on the piano
before starting lessons. This is actually very beneficial because
they'll be learning where the high sounds and low sounds are and
learning that they can make quiet & loud sounds and short &
long sounds (which cuts out several lessons where you have to pay me
to teach those basic things when they could be learning it on their
own through experimentation and play!) And for girls in particular,
make sure they have done at least 1 year of a dance class before
starting music lessons. My students who have dance experience almost
always seem to do better in piano lessons because they've experienced
music and rhythm through their body and have already learned how to
keep a steady beat necessary for piano playing. And most importantly,
make sure you are making music a major part of your life at home by
listening to classical music, kids songs, pop/rock songs,
traditional/folk songs, patriotic songs, etc. very often. Singing at
home is extremely important too-- exploring their voice is the most
intimate way to explore music and become aware of pitch that they
will hear on other instruments. Kids that have been exposed to lots
of music at home almost always have an easier time learning piano! I
also highly recommend enrolling in several semesters of our Preschool
Music, Story, & Art Class for ages 4-6. Not only does it give
kids exposure to music and instruments from around the world, but it
also gives them a chance to explore pitch and rhythm that they will
need experience with in piano lessons, get comfortable with our
school environment, and practice direction following skills needed in
lessons.
So,
in short, by age 6 or 7 almost
all
children are ready for private lessons. Some
children are ready by age 4½ or 5. And very very rarely, there are
some children ready at age 3 or 4. Personally, I worry that if you
take a risk and start lessons before age 6 just to see if they can
handle it and
it ends negatively, as
they get older, they'll have it in the back of their head that piano
was difficult and boring and be hesitant to give it another try.
I'd prefer for piano lessons to be a successful and enjoyable
experience from the very start for all of my students.
I
personally didn't start lessons until 3rd
grade. My grandma had a piano at her house that I was allowed to play
around on as a young child, and I started learning the basics about
music notes in my elementary music class in the public school system.
When I finally started piano lessons, I progressed very quickly
through the beginner books which gave me a lot of confidence and
motivation to continue. I never felt like I was falling behind other
kids who started lessons at a younger age. I've met a lot of other
professional musicians who didn't start piano lessons until late
elementary school, and they all turned out to be incredible
musicians!
I
hope this gives you a better understanding of when to enroll your
child in lessons and helps you understand why some piano teachers
will refuse to teach very young children.
I also HIGHLY RECOMMEND purchasing either this children's
clarinet with 8 color coded keys prior to starting piano lessons. Your child should be able to independently read the "notes" to the song and play them in the correct order and should be willing to play songs through 2-3 times in a row to "practice." This is a great demonstration of cognitive ability, attention span, fine motor skills, left and right coordination, and musical interest that are all needed in piano playing. If they are unable to complete this with the children's clarinet, it is very unlikely that piano lessons will be successful. Download the songs to play
here.
